Do you remember the spoon-bending scene from the 1999 movie The Matrix?
It occurs the first time Neo goes to see the Oracle after he was rescued from the Matrix. In the Oracleâs waiting room, he sees two girls floating blocks above their heads and a young boy bending a spoon.
Young boy: âDo not try and bend the spoon. Thatâs impossible. Instead ⊠only try to realize the truth.â
Neo: âWhat truth?â
Young boy: âIt is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.â
So if you think you can use traditional marketing techniques on social media, youâre still trying to bend the spoon. Thatâs the message in The Zen of Social Media Marketing by Shama Hyder.
âTraditional marketing rules cannot be applied to social media because social media is not a marketerâs platform. It belongs to consumers,â says Hyder.
Todd Defren, principal of SHIFT Communications, is even more blunt: âYou are in the findability department. The marketing department is dead.â
âFindabilityâ means using social media to find people who are already talking about you and your company, and starting a relationship with them. Yes, I said a relationship! Because relationships are why most people use social media. And most people are more likely to buy something from someone they know than from a total stranger.
So when you use social media to find people who are already talking about their needs, and you offer to help them solve that need, you are building the foundation for a trusting relationship.
Thatâs very different from spending thousands of dollars and using mass media to âblastâ your message at millions of total strangers who probably couldnât care less about your product or service at that particular time.
And Hyder writes from personal experience. After getting a Master of Arts degree in Organizational Communication at the University of Texas at Austin in 2006, she started her own online marketing business in 2007. Just one year later, she was making âsix figures.â And all of her clients came from her online marketing efforts, specifically social media marketing.
Now she gets speaking engagements and television interviews, and has to turn away more clients than she takes on. Wouldnât you like to be in that position?
ACT Right to Get Results
âThe Zen of social media marketing is about understanding the mindset of people who are using social media and then using it to your advantage,â says Hyder. And hereâs a clue about that mindset: theyâre not interested in buying anything! âRemember, social media is not a selling tool! It is an attracting tool!â
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FIND YOUR NEXT FAVORITE TOOLThatâs right â Hyder recommends using social media primarily to attract people, not sell to them. Because people donât use social media to look for something to buy. They use social media to express their unique personality and connect with friends and family.
In fact, Hyder says âattractâ is the first of three steps in successful online marketing:
- Attract: Get their attention and lure them to your main selling tool â your website.
- Convert: Use your website to turn a stranger into a prospect or a customer.
- Transform: Turn past and present successes into testimonials, case studies and customer success stories.
The acronym for this process â very appropriately â is ACT. And Hyder recommends you use social media for steps 1 and 3, and your website for step 2. The testimonials, case studies and customer success stories on your social media sites will attract a new set of potential customers.
Because people love to read stories â especially the stories of people who have successfully solved the same problems they have. How did they do it? If they can do it, maybe I can too!
And if your company provided the solution, they might just email you.
If you already know a lot about social media marketing, you may want to pass on this book. It only covers the basics and you may already know all of that.
But if youâre still standing on the beach wondering how to use social media marketing, let Hyder teach you how to swim in the social media ocean. If youâre not willing to spend four months learning social media âan hour a day,â you will love her book. You can read it in one day!
Here is what you will learn:
- How to use the ACT process
- The importance of a properly optimized website
- The basics of Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn
- Video podcasting from Dave Kaminski of Web Video University
- How to create a social media policy for your organization
- Using Ping.fm to boost your websiteâs Google ranking
The book ends with social media marketing case studies from 12 different companies and organizations. Many are using social media to successfully market their products and services. You can too!
And Hyder has created an interactive, online version of the book that will be frequently updated âto make sure youâre always on top of the latest in social media, with videos, MP3s, and more!â
So if you need a brief, basic introduction to social media marketing, you canât do better than this book.
Social Media Examiner gives this book 5 stars.
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