Warriors, workers, whiners or weasels? (10 posts)

  • Tim O’Leary defines the four personality types in the business world as warrior, worker, whiner or weasel. Do you know which one your are? Do you know which ones you work with? How much attention do you give to personality types in your business? How much attention should you give to this? 

  • I’m a worker, in fact i’m so tired right now it’s pitiful. (Florist – Valentines day – insanity)  We have a sign in the design room about soaring with the eagles or quacking like a duck. I will admit to some whining about all the fraud and unfairness in this world but am realistic to know it’s pointless.  I honestly have no desire to be a warrior either. Just let me work please

  •  @deairby Whiners and weasels? I much prefer the personality identification system that included golden retrievers!

     @jeniferswanson Glad to see you survived Valentine’s Day at the florist shop.


  • @deairby I do believe there are different personalities in business and specially when selling we would be foolish to treat them all the same way.Outgoing socializers, cheer leaders, those who read everything and more.. But whiners and weasels???? Now that sounds like it was written by someone whose personality is to  consider themselves quite superior. Yes, I have met a handful of real whiners and major weasels but they are a slim slim minority. I have not read this book, nor would I want to!

  • Thank you @debbielynnbutler!  On a positive note, sales were up from last year. Midweek valentines are typically better but the optimist in me hopes it’s a sign of improving economy. The whiner in me dreads all the negative reviews of non-deliveries, bad product, rip-offs from the order gatherer companies like ftd, blooms today, just flowers, pro flowers, etc, etc.  These companies are not real florist and are destroying the industry.  Facebook will be lit up with rants and complaints but will people learn?

  • This may sound corny and maybe it is the psychologist in me that is influenced here…..but I think we all have great things to contribute and we all largely want to do a good job. To that end – I guess I am a little wary of what I have just read about Tim O’Leary’s classification - as it seems so negative. I have not read it in any detail though so I may be off beam here. 
    Of course if you have people on your team that are unhappy – they can be toxic to the team. Usually people are unhappy (whiners) because their needs are not being met at some level. It is more useful to try to figure out what is missing and if the situation can be turned around than it is to give them a negative label. I don’t see how that can help…..

  • we do  go  by  personality….  the picky   perfectionist   on e  does the books and   ,  the happy  friendly   outgoing one is  the  best  salesman,   etc etc etc…. there are some things  you just  cant   change or  make happen…

    those 2  could never  switch  places…i try  to  get the  right  types in the right places………where  their  good parts are   the most helpful…. 

    .. …

  • @ Dea Irby

    For me, I’m sorry to say this sounds like “pigeon holing” and that is a premise I am uncomfortable with. 

    Think of children. How they are relegated to ‘types’ in grade school and how that follows them through out their educational lives. It is patently unfair to have one person deciding how to direct another persons life. 

    Educational or business – doesn’t matter. We do tend to categorize people but is that fair? It all comes down to judging someone, whether it’s on their merits, work ethic, personality clash, jealousy and so on.  

    Having said that, as adults, we can see that outgoing, sometimes boisterous people make better salesmen than accountants. But is that really true? I don’t know as I personally know some soft spoken, mild mannered people who are at the top of the salesman ladder. So, I don’t know.

    Probably a good book you’ve mentioned and worth reading too. It’s the whole idea of sitting around a table and deciding someone else’s future based on personality traits.  I just don’t think it’s a fair way to JUDGE people.

    .02  :)

  • @supereb i didnt like the sound of the   types…..but 

     in hiring  tho, you naturally   do   take the traits  into  consideration….  i can see the  negatives of pigeonholing kids…..but in hiring a worker  you need al the help  you  can  get….   and a  bright cheery  friendly outgoing person   might be a  big part   what  you are looking for  n a certain  job….  …

    and a  boring   quiet   perfectionist might  be  just right  too, in  another job….

  • Most of us can probably think of co-workers and business associates we’d term “whiners” or “weasels,” but I doubt anyone would characterize him or herself as a “whiner” or a “weasel.” 

    Where do they come up with this stuff?


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