’fess up, what mistakes have you made? (10 posts)

  • I can’t speak for all of you, but I know I have made plenty of mistakes. The important thing, of course, is to learn from those mistakes, to make sure those mistakes are not made again. When I went into business (tea room cafe and gift shop) I had never worked outside the home-yeah, I was that green-but had spent 29 years being a wife and mother (of 8). Needless to say I made my fair share of mistakes. Also, I went from not having a business to opening a business in four weeks!Here are just a few:1. no clear, workable business plan (just a vision)2. no exit strategy3. afraid to focus on a specific “customer” because I didn’t want to leave anyone out4. poor staff management, well, I felt like they each had something to teach me and I wasn’t a real BOSS5. spent money I didn’t have6. no definite plan for marketing, when a salesperson approached and I thought it sounded good, I’d do it. (see point #5)Well, enough about my “sins.”And, I was in business for 7 years! Now, the cafe is closed and the teas and gifts are in a consignment booth. I’ve written a cookbook with all the recipes people loved and stories of my town and customers. (going to second printing soon) 

  • @deairby sounds like a good recovery, and thanks for sharing. Here are a few of mine (most egregious, I think: 1) Not understanding the value of networking–I lost touch with many people in my early professional life, as well was valuable college friends and acquaintances. No, we did not have social networks, but even a holiday card once a year would have preserved a connection. 2) Letting myself be intimidated by the “good ol’ boys”– cost me $, but more importantly established habits in myself and creating doubts and 3) Not suing the company and manager who “laid me off” and “did me a favor” as I should be home taking care of my infant daughter. I may not have gotten any financial gain, but in hindsight, just the chutzpah of standing up for myself and what was right would have been beneficial.

    I still struggle with in-person networking, especially in a new room where I know almost no one. I will be put to the test now, as I live in a totally new place and don’t know anyone.

  • @joanmuschampfagnani thanks, Joan, for chiming in. I’m curious to see how many people will. You can do it, girl. People are missing out on the pleasure of knowing you and learning from you. Sorry to be trite but remember, what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger!

  • @deairby you do know that! I only have two kids, LOL, but that is enough!

    I think the question is a good one for a lot of reasons, but learning is important. In my career, marketing changed more in the past 5 years than in the earlier 30! And a a much more rapid pace.

    If I wasn’t learning everyday, I could not survive. In fact, a few months ago I met a woman my age, also a “marketer” who admitted she knew nothing about digital marketing or social media. She was out of a job, and at a loss for what to do next. A sad example when we stop learning.

    Now, I have to also stretch, and having my own biz will do that. I’ve written down not only my goals, but also listed my pitfalls and things I want to improve. Personal networking is one of them…actually high on the list, as I do really miss having close friends nearby. No where so far has that been more apparent than missing my church community.

  •  @joanmuschampfagnani And stretch you will. This will be the year! You are going to be a social bug. And you will find the right church community.

  • I was fresh out of college and was tasked to manage the family business. My big flaw was that I wanted to please everyone. I couldn’t say no. I felt like a pushover.

    That family business is long gone now, and I (hope) am a better person today because of that experience.

  • The biggest mistake i have made in business was believeing a jerk who just kept telling me “dont worry, i got this, ill get it done, two more weeks, two more weeks, two more weeks, end of the week, end of the week, end of the week” Six months of working on my project and I had not seen ANY results. No preview of the work or anything, so I fired them without pay. I warned many times they were under contract to do the work and show me or they were not entitled to a penny. Sure enough I was clearly not being taken seriously so I fired him. He refused to be fired which of course made me laugh. Dont feel too bad for him, it took 6 months for me to fire him but I spoke to the coowner of that company and I still hold a working relationship with him because he has done work pesonally for my business and he has never let me down. He informed me that while I was being told 2 weeks, end of the week, its 90% done and whatever. The project was bearly half complete and he appologized for not being involved in my project, when as an owner he should have payed more atention to it. I felt he was being very genuine and again, the fact he has personally done very good work and helped me out before, I decided to continuing to work with him, as long as I was dealing with him. My moral is, don’t believe a wolf in a sheep costume. if someone uses the “dont worry about it” line when you ask for details, assurance, or a progess report, then something is fishy and look into it an get to the bottom of it MUCH quicker than I did.

  • The biggest mistake i have made in business was believeing a jerk who just kept telling me “dont worry, i got this, ill get it done, two more weeks, two more weeks, two more weeks, end of the week, end of the week, end of the week” Six months of working on my project and I had not seen ANY results. No preview of the work or anything, so I fired them without pay. I warned many times they were under contract to do the work and show me or they were not entitled to a penny. Sure enough I was clearly not being taken seriously so I fired him. He refused to be fired which of course made me laugh. Dont feel too bad for him, it took 6 months for me to fire him but I spoke to the coowner of that company and I still hold a working relationship with him because he has done work pesonally for my business and he has never let me down. He informed me that while I was being told 2 weeks, end of the week, its 90% done and whatever. The project was bearly half complete and he appologized for not being involved in my project, when as an owner he should have payed more atention to it. I felt he was being very genuine and again, the fact he has personally done very good work and helped me out before, I decided to continuing to work with him, as long as I was dealing with him. My moral is, don’t believe a wolf in a sheep costume. if someone uses the “dont worry about it” line when you ask for details, assurance, or a progess report, then something is fishy and look into it an get to the bottom of it MUCH quicker than I did.

  • @sgsrecording I second that one! I dissolved a partnership due to poor communication and “trust me, it will get done” statements with no evidence. Be careful with partnerships and be sure to get all the proper legal paperwork in order with the partnership agreement that states who brings what to the table along with specific duties so that fiduciary responsibility can be forced onto partners that are not holding up their end. Full transparency and good communication is essential to a good core team before your biz grows too big to squash major problems later on when there is a lot of $$ on the line. Trust me, protect yourself and in the end, it will be you that benefits from it not someone else!

  • @seancookceo-salyrisstudios @sgsrecording @jimsyyap Thanks for sharing your wisdom from your experiences. Perhaps someone can be spared hardship!


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