Is Facebook Making us Lonely? (2 posts)

  • “Loneliness and being alone are not the same thing, but both are on the rise. 
    We meet fewer people. We gather less. And when we gather, our bonds are less meaningful and less easy. 
    The decrease in confidants—that is, in quality social connections—has been dramatic over the past 25 years. In 1985, only 10 percent of Americans said they had no one with whom to discuss important matters, and 15 percent said they had only one such good friend. By 2004, 25 percent had nobody to talk to, and 20 percent had only one confidant.
    We are now in the middle of a long period of shuffling away. In his 2000 book Bowling Alone, Robert D. Putnam attributed the dramatic post-war decline of social capital—the strength and value of interpersonal networks—to numerous interconnected trends in American life: suburban sprawl, television’s dominance over culture, the self-absorption of the Baby Boomers, the disintegration of the traditional family. 

    The trends he observed continued through the prosperity of the aughts, and have only become more pronounced with time: the rate of union membership declined in 2011, again; screen time rose; the Masons and the Elks continued their slide into irrelevance. 

    We are lonely because we want to be lonely. We have made ourselves lonely.”

    The question is this: Is Facebook part of the separating or part of the congregating; is it a huddling-together for warmth or a shuffling-away in pain?”

    What influence do you think this trend will have on conducting business on the Social Media platforms in future?


    Quote by Stephen Marche . Read the full article here: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/05/is-facebook-making-us-lonely/8930/

  • ….. i think it can get  people together too….i enjoy  people i will  probably never  meet  face to face….thats  pretty shallow  but  something…like my dh  who  talks  about everyday  with a bunch of antique  tractor  buddies…its  a nice  thing  for him…..now if  he  was up all night   chatting with  some  of  the  girls  who   are out there that would  be   way  different…lol

    a big  change i see is that we are all so  individual,  we have so much less in common  with our neighbors  than a long time ago….when   everyone w atched the same  3  tv  stations…and  most  women   were at home ..

    to me social media  is  enriching… 

    here in our small town, the moose and elks  used to  be  populated with  downntown business owners….now  thats all different.. our  downtown  is  mostly   gone and  replaced  wtih   big  corps… like walmart and walgreens…..  the owners  are   replaced  with managers…way different  mindset and  commitment  to the town…. 

    @voxsip  good post


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