Holly Elliott said
1 year, 2 months ago: Well, @ursa, that being the case, it sounds as though the group is more of a self-serving one, at least for the group moderator, and s/he is not likely to “get” your objections.
I can’t imagine you’re getting much out of the group, but getting confrontational with the group moderator is not likely to get you anywhere. Instead make an inquiry, something along the lines of: “I know Facebook has been acting up lately, at least with pages, where posts appear and disappear. So I just wanted to check and see if, from your end, you were able to see the link to the blog that I posted earlier but now am not seeing in the group posts. Do you have any idea what happened to it?”
Depending on whether s/he responds and the nature/tone of any response, then I’d decide whether I wanted to reach out to others in the group and/or quietly leave the group. Taking a confrontational approach is not going to help you gain any ground, but maybe subtly helping him/her see and understand that “playing nice” would better serve their objectives …
If they don’t get it, then participating in the group or trying to engage toe-to-toe with the moderator is not a worthy investment of your time and energy.