Social Media Examiner | Negative Posts | Topic Replies http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/feed/ Negative Posts - Forum Topic in the Group Blogging Wed, 22 May 2013 02:25:55 +0000 http://buddypress.org/?v=1.5.5 en http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12621<![CDATA[Glen Gorham replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12621 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:23:15 +0000 Glen Gorham replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @melissaagnes @debbie-hemley @kristi-hines it is all in how you decide to spin it for yourself. Typically with perceived negative comments they are either:a. confused, did not get your point, and they wind up […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12563<![CDATA[Melissa Agnes replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12563 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:37:07 +0000 Melissa Agnes replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @kristi-hines Great point about having to sometimes take a minute (or a few hours) to take a step back, digest and rethink before responding. That has saved me a few times too!

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12560<![CDATA[Fawn Morgan replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12560 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:29:51 +0000 Fawn Morgan replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @melissaagnes I have to agree with you.  I think that @debbie-hemley hit the nail right on the head.  Acknowledgement is important.  If people think that you are only will to listen to those who agree with you […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12555<![CDATA[Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12555 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:12:52 +0000 Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @kristi-hinesYeah, I had to sit with it little before I responded 'cause let's put it this way--I wasn't feeling real diplomatic from the onset!

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12554<![CDATA[Kristi Hines replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12554 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:10:54 +0000 Kristi Hines replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @matthewoneill I've had some negative comments on my site as well as on other sites I write for.  I think there's a difference (in my mind at least) between negative and just opposing viewpoints.  People can […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12550<![CDATA[Kristi Hines replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12550 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:03:39 +0000 Kristi Hines replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @debbie-hemley You handled that really well.  I have a little too much snark in my system, and I would have probably said that...
A) Most of the list posts on SME are around this length and they are loved by the […]
]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12545<![CDATA[Don Purdum replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12545 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 16:48:48 +0000 Don Purdum replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @melissaagnes @matthewoneillMatthew, I've never had that happen on any of my blogs. However, I have seen it happen plenty of times on other blogs and social media posts.I agree with Melissa, you need to find a […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12538<![CDATA[Monique Sherrett replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12538 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:37:42 +0000 Monique Sherrett replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @matthewoneill My favorite Bill Gates quote is, “Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning." 
If you're blogging, then you want the fast feedback loop that comments provide, which means […]
]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12537<![CDATA[Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12537 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:28:46 +0000 Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @matthewoneill @melissaagnes And as @abigailgorton says I have had that negative comment that's a real kick to the gut "that just derails your day." I heard an interesting talk recently with Gabe Zichermann […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12534<![CDATA[Melissa Agnes replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12534 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:16:14 +0000 Melissa Agnes replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @debbie-hemley Nailed it! I think that it is very important to respond - never delete unless it is spam or something, as @abigailgorton said derogatory.
The trick, I think, is to be polite and respond in a way that […]
]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12533<![CDATA[Abigail Gorton replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12533 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:07:33 +0000 Abigail Gorton replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @matthewoneill Matthew, you can have some clear guidelines (or say you do!) "I have removed a post due to profanity / personal attack / religious / political... on a blog that is not about these things" Then […]

]]> http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12531<![CDATA[Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging]]>http://www.socialmediaexaminer.com/clubs/blogging/forum/topic/negative-posts/#post-12531 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:52:41 +0000 Debbie Hemley replied to the forum topic Negative Posts in the club Blogging @matthewoneillInteresting question! I think it's good to find a way to respond to the negative comments and sometimes you may have to sit and think on it a bit before responding. I had a post on SME on Monday […]

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