said 1 year ago:
RE: But I DO want to know when someone has replied to me specifically. Unfortunately its all or none and most people choose none.
Please view the image at: http://webbdemo.com/images/DISQUS-Notifications.png and you will see that there is an option to “Notify me of replies to my comments”
In your original post you state: “ a plugin I can use on top of Disqus to send out those thank-yous and replies. ”
In your last post you state: ” I never subscribe to receive comments from other blogs because I don’t want to subscribe to the thread ”
I am confused because it sounds like you want to make that decision for people commenting on your blog posts. (Sending them thank yous and notification of replies.) But, when you are out and about on the internet you don’t want that decision made for you. You only want to get notified of replies to your specific comment.